Am I going 2 go crazy?
Posted by admin on Dec 3, 2009
OK I am a single father with a 3 year old son and I have 50/50 split custody. I was only married for a year and a half. I admit I am old fashion at the age of 30 but my ex knew this for the 4 years we dated. My ex is taking me to court for 150.00 child tax credit ( even though in our divorce decree it states we alternate claiming our son, me odd years and her even years). A 80.00 daycare dispuite because on my week of paying daycare our provider took 1/2 the week off and I only had to make a partial payment. And finally she wants 60 dollars a month because my son has health care under her new husbands plan, but he pays 350.00 dollars a monthe if it is just single coverage or 10 people on the plan. Is this fair that I received a summons to go to court today ? Is she being harsh because of the divorce? What do I do ? I did loose 75% in this divorce because she was a full time student that never worked and I owned a company (which I lost), and a 500,000.00 house my dad and I built.
Sounds to me like she is just greedy and wants more money and will do anything to get it. It has nothing to do with the child, she wants the money for herself. There probably isnt a whole lot she can do about the tax credit since it says in your papers that yall alternate years. And maybe the judge will see that she is just being petty and selfish and not give her what she wants. There is not a whole lot you can do but go to court like you are told to and fight to keep her from getting what she is asking for. And it does sound like she also might be mad at you and just trying to hurt you in any way possible. Just dont let her get to you. She is like a kid, the more she sees it upsets you or annoys you, the more she will try to do it.
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It sounds as though she is a cruel and greedy ‘person’.
If the threatened losses by this summons are high enough, then you may want to consider a lawyer. Considering that you are in emotional distress, it would be doubly important to have professional representation.
You could help things along if you would prepare financial statements (prove that you can’t afford the payments?). You also may want to catch up on gossip about her/them. Sometimes knowledge can prevent bitter persons from bloodsucking.
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You poor fella….I am not sure about answering your question, mainly because I don’t know. You have really had it rough with this girl. It’s girls…(and yes I said girl)… like that who give women bad names. I am sorry that you have had such a bad experience with this person. Keep your head up, she will get what’s coming to her.
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Sounds to me like she is just greedy and wants more money and will do anything to get it. It has nothing to do with the child, she wants the money for herself. There probably isnt a whole lot she can do about the tax credit since it says in your papers that yall alternate years. And maybe the judge will see that she is just being petty and selfish and not give her what she wants. There is not a whole lot you can do but go to court like you are told to and fight to keep her from getting what she is asking for. And it does sound like she also might be mad at you and just trying to hurt you in any way possible. Just dont let her get to you. She is like a kid, the more she sees it upsets you or annoys you, the more she will try to do it.
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You poor thing. She is being unreasonable and is more worried about her than the child. Keep in mind judges always rule on the child’s best interest.
Health insurance does not cost that much for a child. He has a group plan which means of that 350 you are probably looking at 20 to 80 a month for that child depending on the type of plan.
She is trying to dry you out. Tell the judge you love your child to death and she is making it more difficult for you to help the child. For example: "your honor, I do not have an agenda nor hatred towards the mother of this child that I love more than life; but at the same time, when I have lost everything I have ever loved and kept deer to me, I it becoming harder and harder to breath. She is suffocating me. I am asking you to step in and stop this nonsense, I do not want my child to grow in this hostile environment that is being created by her demanding all these things that were not agreed upon it is as though she has a note book next to her bed so if in the middle of the night she comes up with something to torture me she writes it down. What am I to do?"
You just need someone to step in and reason with her. Suggest counseling for the two of you. Judge will love that.
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